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The mental health of Malaysian gay males is affected when they decide to disclose their homosexuality, as it follows by bigotry that diminishes their psychological well-being. This study, henceforth, aims to explore the experience of meaning in life and happiness in coming out of Malaysian gay males. From Kuala Lumpur and Selangor, 22 gay males were recruited with purposive and snowballing sampling techniques in the qualitative study. Findings show that they can ascertain their meaning in life via social engagement in the LGBTQ pride. On that note, they could achieve self-actualization by mingling with people of their community. With the future endeavor and memorable experience, regardless of pleasant or hostile, it can generate happiness in gay males coming out journey, as they will have the attribution of gratitude. The study findings perhaps bring attention to the gay males’ parents about proper mannerisms in responding to their son’s sexual orientation. In that case, an interceding approach from the non-governmental organizations (NGOs) and even the government is offerable to parents. It can ensure that the Malaysian gay males’ meaning in life and happiness are not disrupted by disclosing their sexual orientation to their beloved ones.
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