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International Journal of Academic Research in Progressive Education and Development

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Beyond the Victim Lens: Exploring Conflict Management Style among Domestic Violence Offenders

Puteri Nurafifah Zully Romzi, Norulhuda Sarnon, Nor Jana Saim, Chong Sheau Tsuey, Noralina Omar, Salasiah Hanin Hamjah, Fatimah Yusro Hashim

http://dx.doi.org/10.6007/IJARPED/v14-i2/25256

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Domestic violence is a prevalent social issue worldwide, often occurring within family contexts, such as between married couples, parents, and children. While numerous studies have focused on victims, limited attention has been given to perpetrators. This study explores the dominant conflict management styles among perpetrators of domestic violence. Employing a qualitative research design, the study involved 18 informants selected through purposive sampling and interviewed using in-depth methods. Data were analysed using thematic analysis. Findings reveal three dominant components of conflict management styles: avoidance, superiority, and collaboration. Although perpetrators express love toward their spouses, they struggle with effective conflict resolution. The study offers important implications from a psychological perspective by highlighting the need for emotional regulation, empathy development, and moral reasoning among perpetrators. Additionally, it underscores the role of social work in designing targeted interventions that promote behavioural change and relational healing.

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