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This conceptual review explores how authoritarian parenting impacts the romantic relationship quality of Chinese emerging adults, with a focus on two mediating psychological factors: Type D personality and self-compassion, as well as the moderating influence of authoritarian filial piety. Grounded in Attachment Theory and Self-Determination Theory, this study proposes that an authoritarian parenting style, characterized by high control and low warmth, can predispose offspring to a Type D “distressed” personality marked by high negative affectivity and social inhibition, while also lowering levels of self-compassion. These psychological outcomes, in turn, undermine the quality of later romantic relationships. Furthermore, the study posits that these dynamics are shaped by cultural context. The traditional value of authoritarian filial piety, which emphasizes unquestioning obedience to parents, may amplify the negative effects of strict parenting on relationship outcomes. To substantiate this model, we review current literature on romantic relationship quality, parenting styles, personality development, and cultural values in Chinese contexts. The proposed framework sheds light on the interplay of familial socialization, individual personality traits, and cultural filial beliefs in shaping young adults’ romantic relationship satisfaction and stability. In conclusion, this paper highlights a critical research gap and suggests directions for future empirical studies to test the moderated mediation model in Chinese populations.
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